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Post time 2005-6-2 09:27:34 |Display all floors
It was also a day a kid named Lele quietly left this world.

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永恒的女儿(读周国平的《妞妞》)


2004-06-17 11:20:20 南方网-南方社区 夏小

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  有一千条理由让你早走,只有一条理由把你挽留,这条理由胜过那一千条理由,它就是我对你的爱。——周国平

  重温两年前读过的周国平的《妞妞—一个父亲的札记》,依旧泪如雨下。这不是一本书,而是一个父亲用感情的一砖一瓦垒筑起来的一座坟!

  周国平是一个哲学家,更是一个父亲,一个爱他的孩子胜过一切哲学的父亲,甚至只要他的孩子活着,随便什么哲学死去都好。

  可老天从来是这样,他妒忌幸福的人,他总是把一切本来完美无缺的东西弄的残缺不全,然后告诉你,看!这就是人生!命运在妞妞(周国平的孩子)还没出世之前就开始觊觎她,一环紧扣一环,一步步把孩子推向深渊。先是雨儿(周国平妻子)的表妹把流感传染给了怀孕五个月的她;然后一个四川女孩打来不合时宜的电话,敏感的雨儿因此赌气坚决要打地铺,结果发烧的更厉害;然后急诊的时候又遇到一个蛮横麻木的女医生因而延误了治疗;最罪大恶极的是那个医学博士,把雨儿拉去照X光,而且是两次!在这一系列事故中,哪怕其中任何一个环节断了,孩子都可能不会患先天性眼底肿瘤这种绝症。

  我不知道,周国平是怀着一种什么样的心情,把这些刺心的痛从记忆中掏出来,记下来,并且是那么细腻。小鱼小鸟都有眼睛,妞妞却没有。这个可怜的孩子生来就那么热切而执拗的追逐着光明,当她看见一团橘黄色的灯光时她会笑很久;妞妞唯一一个生日,妈妈对客人说你们看妞妞的眼睛象不象波斯猫,爸爸告诉她波斯猫是世界上最美丽的猫;妞妞一遍遍的哭诉:“磕着了,磕着了……”她不明白世界为什么老是磕着她;在妞妞即将离开世界的那些夜里,她躺在爸爸身边轻声唤着“爸爸”,爸爸也轻声应答,宛若耳语和游丝,在苍茫人世间还有什么比这样的生离死别更让人黯然消魂的啊……

  妞妞死去之后,周国平说:“你在时,我抱你不够,因而觉得时间太少,你走了,我的怀里空了,突然发现时间毫无用处,我不知道拿那么多时间做什么,也许时间只有一个用处,它会帮助我——是帮助我一天天向你走近。”别人都说妞妞解脱了,然而这其实是荒谬的,凭什么别的孩子可以在阳光下追逐,而妞妞却必须解脱呢?作为父母,他们的下半辈子,终将活在这种荒谬中,他们寻找任何一个可能很寻常的契机,不自觉的假设——如果妞妞不死,她也可以象别人的孩子那样戴上红领巾了,也可以象别人的孩子那样羞涩的读着隔壁班男孩的信,也可以象别人的孩子那样成为神圣的母亲……

  事实上,我们从来不怕得不到任何即使我们很想得到的东西,我们怕的是失去我们曾经得到过的东西。为什么失恋会是那么痛苦的事,很多人或许认为在于抛弃的痛苦,其实最重要的不在这里,而是无法接受这样的事实,那段曾经彼此呵护过的感情就这样悄无声息失去了。任何感情都是这样,倾注过,付出过,爱过,不求回报,只想用生命微弱的力量握紧它。可我们活着的世界,总是有一些力量,在它面前,爱,眼泪,显得软弱和无助!

  别人的孩子,以后还会是情人,妻子,母亲……而妞妞,她只是一个女儿——永恒的女儿!

http://www.southcn.com/nfsq/ywhc/ds/200406170635.htm

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Post time 2005-6-2 10:39:33 |Display all floors

Yesterday i gave some Raisins to a baby ~ 1 yr old.

I notice this. I give her one or two pieces in her mouth. No!!! No!!!. Her eyes is on the whole box. She wants the whole box.
I tried later with another box. Same thing, scream and wanted whole box.
Last try was with a third box. I think it was to juicy for her to resist.

Similar with banana. Small piece won't do.Except the whole banana.

That's the cute part of babies or children.

Where the greed comes from?

Another i try to relate to a line i read about beginning of life.
It was dark. Being can only feels. Once touches something, they think it is food. Grab with both hands. They fall to the deep pit and drown in the pool of water.
Feelings about greed!!!

Morale : So subtle the feelings that one don't even realise it.
Like ageing,we can see it after some years but we don't feel it daily.

Time to wake up???

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Post time 2005-6-2 11:22:11 |Display all floors

Finally, you have some good stuff to dedicate to this board, daydreamer

A moving story..

Children are angles. They are lovely and innocent.

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Post time 2005-6-2 11:26:10 |Display all floors

English 101 for sleepye

Children are angels, not angles.

And "to dedicate to"? are you sure you can't find a more appropriate word?

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  Finally, you have some good stuff to dedicate to this board, daydreamer
A moving story..

Children are angles. They are lovely and innocent.


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Post time 2005-6-2 11:34:47 |Display all floors

oops, I cannot find another word , can u please give me any clues?

thanks

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Post time 2005-6-2 11:36:12 |Display all floors

contribute" is the last word I can find in my dictionary

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