in my first post and ever post after... I've repeated myself that it's not ALL chinese men and that it's not JUST chinese men.. Unfortunately I AM in CHina and 90% of the men i run into are chinese..It's strange i would run into soo many chinese men since i'm in China and all!..
You know since i've been in China.. I've been treated with alot of respect , and i give alot of respect because of that.. and i wont change who i am no matter how insulting you get.
If i made a list of things my daughter did that drove me up the wall would that be ok? BEcause she's not chinese..so it doesn't matter then..
Most of that stuff applies to all men not just chinese men.. There are nice guys and jerks everywhere.. Plus what the hell do you know unless you walk in my shoes for a day? Why don't you come out with me one night. I"m sure you'd understand exactly where i'm comming from.
You want everyone to understand chinese culture.. why don't you take the time to understand my culture, my beliefs..and listen for once.. I sure listen when someone is telling me about the way they feel about something. I'm excepting of things being different in china, but it doesn't mean i can't voice an opinion.
i know.. i kinda stated that at the begining too, that this was my thoughts,my perspective.. but i do know that others do share the same opinions.. Would it make you feel better if i made a list of all the wonderful thing chinese men have done for me that Canadian men would never even think of?