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So conveniently simple
John, all a guy has to do is look at a girl to know she is somehow different, but your statement is illogical by omission of myriads of other factors that that distinguish sexes. More specifically, you have committed what is called "fallacy by oversimplification."|
You do not explain the enormous spectrum of human behavior, the environmental, the social, and the psychological factors--that combined--determine the behavior of each individual, male or female.
There are many girls who forget a guy's birthday or who do not give enough attention to, and the guy acts wounded and cries.
There are many girls who are both mentally and physically stronger than many guys.
Science indicates that girls can tolerate pain as good--if not better--than guys. A simple test is for you to have a baby, hahaha! Let you fell the pain your mother felt, bringing you into the world.
And how do you explain the girl who loves her career more than she does the guy, leaving him alone with wounded emotions to soak his pillow with tears? Or the girl who has affairs with other guys, and leaves her husband home alone with wounded emotions to soak his pillow with tears?
Oh, those dirty, nasty little chronosomes are so complicated and unpredictable, hahaha!
My advice to girls is to look at a guy's over-all behavior. If different things all add up to a negative sum, then--using American slang--kick him to the curb (that means to put him out on the street...to get rid of him).
A girl--or guy--should not ever stay with a person, thinking that they will change after they are married. After marriage, when the person is "trapped," it will only get much worse.
Girls and guys should be only with those with whom they are emotionally compatible with!
You cannot--and should not--have to force another to be thoughtful and caring. You can only control and improve yourself--not others.
John, do you have a girlfriend? You had better be sure that her science isn't better than yours...or that you have a nice, soft pillow to cry into, hahaha!