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Should kids be taught “If someone hits you, hit back"?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2017-8-17 11:05:23 |Display all floors
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Ms. Zhou from Wuhan, Hubei, has recently left her pre-kindergarten son Xiaolei in his grandparents’ house, as the two seniors hoped to have more quality time with their beloved grandson before he went to school. However, Ms. Zhou found his son, who used to be nice to everyone, became aggressive and difficult when she picked him up one month later.

It turned out that Xiaolei had been receiving bully prevention training from his grandparents to “keep him safe from bullies.”

The one-month training program was quite effective. When asked: “If someone pushes you, what would you do?” Xiaolei answered: “I will grab his arm and bite him!” When asked: “What if he cries loud to alert the teacher?” He responded: “Then I will lie on the ground and cry louder!”

Much to Ms. Zhou’s amusement, Xiaolei’s grandparents also taught him some special moves to hurt someone without leaving actual injury, according to the boy’s aunt. “His self-protection awareness still needs to be further improved,” Xiaolei’s grandparents told Ms. Zhou, who is worried about potential negative influences by senior classmates.

Chen Hongmei, a child education expert, believes such inappropriate training will only make the child even more anxious about school and make it harder for him to adapt in society. “Every child has his or her own way to interact with other people. Adults should not interfere too much,” Chen said.

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Post time 2017-8-17 14:40:08 |Display all floors
From tv news:  Chinese parents not only teach their kids to hit back, they even fought against each other because their little ones had a minor scuffle, snd both parties ended up in the police station!

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Post time 2017-8-17 16:04:24 |Display all floors
Teach your kids to report these type of things to the teachers. Returning hate with hate is why the USA has turned into a war zone at schools and on the streets.

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Post time 2017-8-17 18:47:36 |Display all floors
Swifty55 Post time: 2017-8-17 16:04
Teach your kids to report these type of things to the teachers. Returning hate with hate is why the  ...

I'm more upset that the USA has turned the Middle East, Ukraine, Yemen, Libya, Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan,
Israel-Palestine,

The American taxpayers seem to be happy to foot the bill:
   
  As of August 2016, the US has already appropriated spent or taken on obligations to spend more than
$3.6 trillion.
The total US budgetary cost of the wars reaches $4.79trillion...

http://watson.brown.edu/costsofw ... AL%20final%20v2.pdf     
  


  


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Post time 2017-8-18 10:04:02 |Display all floors
school bully events gradually get parents worrisome,which parents are more likely to sent their children to fighting club for getting some kind of fighting skill to fight back.for most of the part,it is a better way to improve children's confidence as well as courage,not just dealing with fighting events,also in other sides.the problem we meet is how to explain why we learn self-protection fighting skill.is not fighting back when others hit you,but with more courage,learn to find ways to resolve the problems

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