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Are we get ready for undertaking the pains from love?
There are some hearted person who introduce boys to me, but they are not the idle lover in my mind. I don't know whether I demand too much from my future partner. |
I insist I would not get married until I meet the right person in my destiny. There is only once time for me to dedicate my true love for ONE person in my life, so I must take this seriously. Never get married only for marriage. I think it is stupid to be forced to get married because of ages.
Maybe there is anther reason----we haven't get ready for falling in love with someone. Love means more responsibilities than itself. Sometimes I watch people around me who have got married and set up a family. I can enjoy their happiness, but sometimes I couldn't burden the quarrels and hurts between them, although their couples' quarrels meant nothing to me. I worry that my marriage life would be like their's, which make me a little despair.
I told my aunt about my thought that I don't want to get married. Aunt told me that I don't want to take on the responsibilities coming from my partners, my child and family. She also told me that the generation like me was too selfish!! We only enjoy ourselves, but consider little for others.
Are we selfish?! It puzzled me for a long time. Maybe it comes from the pressure of the life itself, maybe it comes from ourselves. However, it is also proved that we are responsible for ourselves. We never put our happiness on somebody else, even our husbands and our children. The couples are equal and independent in character and economy. Are we wrong in pursuing for equality?
That doesn't mean I give up my love. On the contrary, I expect my love eagerly. Before I meet my Mr.Right, I enjoy my single days interestingly and freely. And I also perfect myself in many fields. I hope I can become an ideal image on my partner's mind also. When the luck comes, I hope I have get ready for accepting it.
Anyway, life will become pale without love.