After all, love is about giving. If you can’t have an awesome time by yourself, you will never be able to be happy in a relationship. It’s really all about your inner music and focus on the purpose. The real core issue here is loving yourself first and having a great relationship with you first, focusing on your life and your life style, creating a life that you’re proud of. If you’re not happy, a relationship is not going to make you happy. You’ve got to get to a place where you can enjoy being alone by yourself. In order to be successful in your intimate relationship you must love, accept value and have a great relationship with yourself first. You can’t give away what you don’t already have for yourself. Why? When we depend upon people and things outside of ourselves in order to be happy, eventually, we will realize that we are unhappy and it will become nearly impossible to sustain the relationship. Therefore, in order to have great relationship, we must create a life and life style that’s compelling, fulfilling that we are proud of. When you’re proud of yourself, your life and journey, even if you’re not where you ultimately want to be, you make yourself so attractive that others will become excited about joining you to be a part of it. Attract, rather than chasing. As Jim Rohn said, ‘You can attract more by becoming more.