Actually,these day I have been deeply affected in a negative mind,and follow people to complain.But when I analyse myself,I realized that something is not that serious,and we shoule learn to understand people on her position.if some bad things can't change,then just adjust to it and try to be happy.The god father in the 《Desperate Wives》said to Bree:Looking at things that have been taken away is a bad way to go through life.Yes,time will be happier if you concern about what you got or will get instead of what you lost.the emotions,feelings,that all depend on myself.
Our manager comes to factory from Hangzhou again,this time she will stay for a long time.and there are some great changes in our company this time.In front of the changes and some essential reasons,I began to tidy up my thoughts from all of a mess.
Don't take things too serious,it is nothing but a floating cloud.
I always take things too serious before,especially others' opinion,I think I am harsh on myself,and can't bear someone's bad remark,so I always seek to please others to get a perfect impression on me,even I am unpleased.So I am bad at speaking out myself,and take too serious of others' opinion.
This is a fatal weakness of me,I don't know how to deal with people and things in work and life.Actually,the confilcts in work and colleague are not that important and terrific.You can't escape some disagreement and disputs at all,and all of these contradictions in work is brief,including the human relations.Disputes will be ease with the problem solved,and you must believe,no matter how hard the problem is,it must be solved finally.So don't put yourself harsh,don't put deep emotions with everyone and everything related to work,especially these person who is not on your line,you can neglect their eyes.You must know,you can't be perfect in everyone's eyes.
So,work,just to serve and do,solve problem.When facing problems,be positive,problems must be solved at last.Don't live in other people's eyes,try to be yourself.Just catch the most important things in yr life,such as:intimated friends,lover,parents and relatives.These will be someting permanent,and worth your pain and worry.
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