shengnu, why is this in China ?
2014-06-09
I have read a few articles about this. It would seem, if they are well educated and intelligent, they would be MORE desirable. I know, in the United States, some men look at them and avoid them. Other men, just the opposite.
I find these women attractive. Well educated, self suffiecient and intelligence are in my boo desirable.
With a little age too comes more sophistication, worldllyness ( is there such a word ) ?? lol, which are also great traits.
With these attributes comes good conversation over a nice dinner and a walk
To me at least, I find it appreciated. 
This phenomenon exists pretty much in every developed country. It only becomes a so called problem in China when over concerned parents, long nosed relatives and friends all try to get in with their two cents worth.
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