Do you say some words to your Mum today ? Hurry up !
2014-05-11
"Mum, Mum, Hug you, oh no, Hug me " every time my gril of one year and ten months call me this, the sweet and warm fell is full of my heart, I birthed my gril at my 36 years old. I still remember that unforgettable days, I had very strong pregnancy reaction, I laid on the bed almost everyday. There is a Chinese proverb : If you don't keep a child , you never know your parents' hearts.
Since I had my gril, I truly feel my parents ,specially my Mum is really great. My mum birthed me at her 38 years, I have three older brothers and two sisters, my mum nursed me at the same time she also need take care of other kids and feed family. My mother is 73 years old this year, she cannot take care of herself due to the cerebral embolism sequela, she got dermatosis for inconvenient moving, I left home since I graduated ,last year I came home and stayed some days with her , I truly feel how much she need us take care her, my old dad cannot take care her in some activities of daily life. When I bathed her ,looking at skin diease alomst coverd very inch of her body,Icried ! How much pains and itching she suffered everyday ! But she did not say , everyday she show us smile face and care much for us, however she was suffering this every second, but I do not know ......every time I thought this,my tears flood out . I feel guilty as a daughter.
I remember one day, Mum jokingly said :"I do not want to live any long, my days is enough." After her words, my tears followed down, I said : No way, Mum , I cannot live without you, If you were left, I feel my world is very lonely anddark, I am afraid of looking back any more, and without courages to go forward.
Mum is very very important in my life mentally and physically.
It is still rainning out side,which is like the love of Mum moistening things silently.
I am lucky , my Mum is still standing my back and I can say :my great Mum, I love you ! LOve you ,love you...
Do you say some to your Mum today? Hurry up !
Beautiful thoughts. And you and you mum are examples of older women having babies. Why not!
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