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justwowo
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QUOTE:

Originally posted by St_George at 2009-11-5 19:41
I have a very good female friend who i trust and have known for many years. We have never been intmate and i actually think intimacy would spoil our friendship.

She's a far better friend than m ...

Yes,sometimes you will open your heart to opposite sex friends ,however these words may not be told to your consort

The opposite sex friends are different with family.

2009-11-6 05:16 PM

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it's nothing any more .
i have never getten it ,and so hard

2009-11-6 05:45 PM

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disagree

i belive there had pure friendship between girls and boys when they was young，but as time goes，when they grew up，the relationship may changed into another，they get a distance between them，no intimate any more，just be acquaintances with each other。

2009-11-6 06:21 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by HappySea at 2009-11-5 09:50
Many people told me that they did not believe boys and girls have pure friendship, as they grew up, to be man or women, their friendship will disappear or be not pure as before~

I am not agree w ...

frainly,i eager to get this kind of pure friendship,morever,i have intimate male friend ,but bcs we cant do lover only be best friend,so i am not sure our future if still can keep this wonderful relationsip,at least,now enjoy and chrish that.it is valuable...

2009-11-6 08:18 PM

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i am quite agree with you there does exist the pure friendship between the boys and girls in the world why not sometimes this kind of friendship may turn into love but i just mean sometimes friendship is the most valuable staff so cherish it if you have

2009-11-6 10:10 PM

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intimacy is the poison to your relation so never be intimate , which is good for your family and your friendshio

2009-11-6 10:14 PM

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Originally posted by lily36918 at 2009-11-6 10:23
i don't agree with it.
if there is a pure friendship between a man wnd a woman,there will be the one makes a sacrifice to hide his(her) feeling.

pure friendship is not like what you think if a girl and a boy have a pure friendship that means both dont have any motives so they dont have to sacrifice anything just share each others joy and sorrows

2009-11-6 10:18 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by lily36918 at 2009-11-6 10:23
i don't agree with it.
if there is a pure friendship between a man wnd a woman,there will be the one makes a sacrifice to hide his(her) feeling.

yes,you are absolutely right！！

2009-11-6 11:02 PM

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I don't think there exists pure friendship between a boy and a girl ! When we grow up ,the topics we talk about will change according to our physical and psycholojical change . We may not talk about studies , films ,delicous food, but talk about someting like love. What's more, if you have made a boy/girl friend ,are you sure he/she will not care about this !

2009-11-6 11:03 PM

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i watched a movie " 500 days with summer"
proves out that there is no pure relationship between a gril and a boy
actually, one of them must have hidden his/her feeling

2009-11-6 11:36 PM

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I think there is ,but it is hard to keep long ............................

2009-11-7 12:04 AM

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girlfriend not the wife

To have a good friend is very importance, especially a female friend !!

2009-11-7 01:29 AM

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Yeah,I totally agree with you. I think there is pure friendship between man and women. but I don't have one really good male friend.

2009-11-7 09:03 AM

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Do you think there exist pure friendship between a boy and a girl?

I believe ......

once my friend said " pure friendship between boys and girls is simplly not exist"

but I believe that exists......

[ Last edited by liuhonglei121 at 2009-11-7 09:53 AM ]

2009-11-7 09:45 AM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by lovew at 2009-11-6 14:29
In my opinion,if both of the two had a spouse ,the relationship might be pure.If not ,the one sometimes would fall in love the other.

What if one falls out with his/her spouse? Naturally they would share their marriage problems with their pure-friendship friends.
But they are just humans they can't balance their feelings sometimes. For instance, when one is really upset by her spouse and she is a bit vulnerable, so
she would fall in love with the friend unconsciously.

2009-11-7 09:58 AM

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yes

i agree your opinion

2009-11-7 10:32 AM

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Do you think there exist pure friendship between a boy and a girl?

I believe it
once my friend said " pure friendship between boys and girls is simplly not exist"

but I believe that exists......

2009-11-7 10:38 AM

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stand by you!

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I believe there is such pure friendship beween tow genders! But,most importantly, the both parties should hold a hight qualified ideology, and they share the same moral criterion, most importantly they like to regard each other as the same gender.

2009-11-7 12:09 PM

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i agree with you; because i have a pure intimate .

2009-11-7 03:10 PM

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Reply #39 shineliu0306's post

When you have a real close friend,especially opposite sex one,you should take care whether your close relation ship conflicts with your Wife or husband's mind,We called"chicu" in Chinese!

2009-11-7 03:45 PM

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