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HappySea
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Do you think there exist pure friendship between a boy and a girl?

Many people told me that they did not believe boys and girls have pure friendship, as they grew up, to be man or women, their friendship will disappear or be not pure as before~

I am not agree with it, I believe that friendship can last long, it is very great to have a life-time friend, to have a female (male) intimate is more difficult , and people should take more time to maintain the precious relationsjip, I have a male intimate and both of us feel very relax when we talk, we can talk anything without restriction~that feels really wonderful~

what's your opinion?

2009-11-5 09:50 AM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by HappySea at 2009-11-5 09:50
Many people told me that they did not believe boys and girls have pure friendship, as they grew up, to be man or women, their friendship will disappear or be not pure as before~

I am not agree w ...

of course there can be pure friendship between a man and a woman ,a boy and a girl.
Is it possible to fall in love with all your friends?
Only emotionally non balanced people may be so prone to love affairs so easily.
Especially these days young people have got so many friends who are classmates and go out together.
I have seen it with my children.They have been pure friends for years.Nothing to do with love affairs and romance.

2009-11-5 04:56 PM

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I have a very good female friend who i trust and have known for many years. We have never been intmate and i actually think intimacy would spoil our friendship.

She's a far better friend than my ex-wife ever was though the sexual chemistry was greater with my wife.

2009-11-5 07:41 PM

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i think there are some

2009-11-6 09:30 AM

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friends are the most precious fortune in my life~friendship also should be cherished whether your friend is a girl or a man~

2009-11-6 09:33 AM

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yes

i think there is a pure friendship between boys and girls. If they are minor, maybe there is no. becaus e they dont have a right ability of judgement . As a abult, they have comparable right judgement....In all, I think there is a pure friendship between boys and girls

2009-11-6 09:51 AM

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i don't agree with it.
if there is a pure friendship between a man wnd a woman,there will be the one makes a sacrifice to hide his(her) feeling.

2009-11-6 10:23 AM

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hah

Absolutely there exist a pure friendship between a girl and boy, because i have many pure girl friend ,the truth proves it

2009-11-6 11:43 AM

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I don't think there exists pure friendship between man and woman, there must be something that is different from the friendship between men or women.

2009-11-6 12:53 PM

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that's right!

i agree with your statement! by the way, the age and condition of them are the key!

2009-11-6 01:41 PM

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of course

of course there is pure friendship between a man and a woman. but they can just be commen friends not close confidants.moreover,as time goes on ,they will drift apart,especially after they are married respectively.'cause that they have to consider their partner's feelings

2009-11-6 01:42 PM

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Exist

I am sure there exist pure friendship between boy and girl, because I am a good sample.

2009-11-6 01:43 PM

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A little hard

It is more easy for a man and a lesbian or a woman and a gay.

2009-11-6 02:17 PM

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In my opinion,if both of the two had a spouse ,the relationship might be pure.If not ,the one sometimes would fall in love the other.

2009-11-6 02:29 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by lovew at 2009-11-6 14:29
In my opinion,if both of the two had a spouse ,the relationship might be pure.If not ,the one sometimes would fall in love the other.

Interesting~~but sounds correct~

2009-11-6 03:01 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by lovew at 2009-11-6 14:29
In my opinion,if both of the two had a spouse ,the relationship might be pure.If not ,the one sometimes would fall in love the other.

hehe ,you are a very interesting person

I have been believing that there must be pure friendship between boy and girl.

I once had a "best friend ",and I will tell him nearly everything about myself .Even my secret. We both recognized the other side as own best friend and make a promise that we will do as we like ,no matter how our surroundings talk about us.

Afterwards, many people say affairs of us and even one of my colleague finds him and asks him directly weather he likes me or not ??
When I heard of that ,I was a little angry.I t foreshows a bad news that our friendship is going to break up.

I know and he also knows clearly ,but we still insist ... we have decided not pay attention to them .
People like to play joke ,so let them play. We are pure ,nothing can prevent us.

So ,nothing has been changed after that.

well , as time goes by ,communication between us is getting less and less.
However ,we are still friends ,only not as close as before.
Not much less.

Of course ,I still pay no attention to such a thing ,but maybe he becomes sensitive .So ...

But I will not blame him .In my heart ,he is also my best friend.

In fact ,we can conclude briefly that the true hinder factors is not ourselves ,but others'groundless gossip .

As long as ourselves are firm and steadfast ,nothing can change our friendship then.

I believe that we will be friends forever.

2009-11-6 03:24 PM

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agree

abosolutely there is a true friendship between female and male ,if we treat each other honestly, we will get a beautiful frienship we want. it doesnt matter whether we have a spouse , cuz i'm a girl ,maybe i will have a good gay friend. hahahha.

2009-11-6 03:25 PM

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O(∩_∩)O哈哈~

2009-11-6 04:04 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by kongchao927 at 2009-11-6 15:24

hehe ,you are a very interesting person

Afterwards, many people say affairs of us and even one of my colleague finds him and asks him directly weather he likes me or not ??

I once had a "best friend " ...

HAHA~~I have the same experience just like you~but st that time, both of us did not try to explain that, we just play, study toghther like before~time is the best tool to clear things

2009-11-6 04:45 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by HappySea at 2009-11-6 16:45

HAHA~~I have the same experience just like you~but st that time, both of us did not try to explain that, we just play, study toghther like before~time is the best tool to clear things

How I envy you...

2009-11-6 04:59 PM

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