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Subject: If you are the one: I am ShuQi in the movie
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many fish in the ocean...
you just have the right bait to fish em up (thank god is only a poem; otherwise that person is sooo kokoo without a cure)
BTW...mama told you better shop around
2009-3-12 08:07 PM
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most of people have endured losing their lovers ,although they don't make the fault in the most of time .in a word it's impossible to attain all the targets ,including the loving feeling .
we should bear all the thingfs of life ,including happiness and sadness ,it;s the real life .many people cheated you ,hurt you ,left you .
when you love a boy or girl ,you should dare to tell him or her .maybe he or she disappear from your sight ,you won't find him or her any
more.please tell your loving loudly
2009-3-12 08:10 PM
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hi, girl, donnot think too much. when you broke up with him, you may think you can not last even for a single minute, and your heart was broken into pieces. but now the scene was two months ago and you should pull yourself out of the emotion. everyone in deep sorrow may think it was impossible, but as most of the warm-hearted friends in the forum have said time will be the best cure and i also strongly believe the saying is true.
so, my advice are as follows, and i hope it can make you feel better.
one, donnot get lost in the recalling of the past scenes even though it was once sweet, as the sweeteset memories are the very poision that can tortue a person to death. when you cannot help thinking of the past, you should force yourself go out of your house to hang out with your friends or to find somthing to fill the time. sometimes the recalling is unvoidable, especially at the begining, but you should keep in mind that one cannot live on memories and tell youself not to think. the more you think of the past, the more painful you will be. so, quit the thinking.
the other adviceis not to contact him, even when you want to call him just want to hear the familar voice once again. when you hear the voice, the warm and sweet secnes would come to your mind and you are rolling back instead of march forward.
take care. and i strongly believe you will get through the gloomy days as soon as possible, if you really want to conclude the misery past. after the storm, there will be a big and charming rainbow in the blue sky. and i hope you are the unique.
donnot let all of us down.
2009-3-12 08:12 PM
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you are you,forever,don't live for others,you should believe you can find your mr right oneday,but the precondition is that you should happy
i think your mr right don't want to see you are sad ,in deep sad
so put yourself together.for your love and for yourself and the people who care of you
2009-3-12 08:43 PM
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sometimes love just ain`t enough .my girl
2009-3-12 09:22 PM
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you say goodbye to him first,so maybe what you want is that he say sorry to you and "I don't want you to leave".If not, just forget it.
2009-3-12 09:23 PM
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maybe you feel sad of the end of this love story, but time can cure any pain. believe in youself,there are another person who are your mr right waits for you!
sorrow is temporary. you have a long life.
2009-3-12 09:30 PM
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but how to forget
the point where i am the same with you is that i can't forget him, and when i came across with him, i am always embarrassed. so is him. i don't know whether i still have feeling towards him. but should it turn out to be friendship from now on? he said he would come to my city this April, and what should i expect for? maybe sometimes, when love slips away, it never comes back again. would it work to us, if we say to us continually, " i can still go with him ".
2009-3-12 09:39 PM
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move on move on just move on
2009-3-13 12:39 AM
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Reply #32 melon1008's post
yes you are right
I will brave the life as you told me
thank you indeed
2009-3-13 07:27 AM
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by
amethystaces
at 2009-3-11 16:14
I remembered that night clearly when you took me to the cinema, which was my first time watching movies in cinema. And I would bear this movie in my mind all my life.
It is If You Are the One
Fiv ...
Is it really?
Maybe you two just have no fate.
Love is hardly explain clearly.
Forget him,start you own new life.
2009-3-13 08:24 AM
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The miserable hostory/experience. Actually, I also has the same experience with your mentioned, I like a girl who is my best friends, but eventually, she is fall love with someone, god...
2009-3-13 08:43 AM
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Thanks for all of your heartful suggestions in the post If you are the one
In my yesterday's post, If you are the one: I am Shu Qi in the movie,
so many friends gave me lots of heartful and good ideas and suggestions
from your considerate and thoughtful replies,
I get confidence to brave the future life
Just like Shu Qi in the movie,
he found her beloved in the end
I think that is the best solution
the experience of searching is miserable and painful
but the end is rewarding
One of friends replied me like this, to get over it or to die with it
there is no solution about it except the two
I think I make a wise choice
just as all of you suggested
Therefore,
Please accept my sincerely thanks to all of you,
my dear friends in China Daily Community
2009-3-13 08:46 AM
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maybe what you need is just a sudden point on which you can feel another care coming from deep inner another heart.The care is listening to your pour ,feeling your feel.Just as chinese ancient saying盈盈一水间,脉脉不得语.The vision of the former guy is a kind of desire of love.Your Mr right is not him but he just stand before you on your way for searching real love.The feel is like chicken's regarding his mother as the animal he first sees.you need is a Mr right who really want to touch you ,care you .feel your inner heart. Do you think how your Mr right should do? Find the guy ,fall love with him .you will be survived.
2009-3-13 08:49 AM
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maybe what you need is just a sudden point on which you can feel another care coming from deep inner another heart.The care is listening to your pour ,feeling your feel.Just as chinese ancient saying盈盈一水间,脉脉不得语.The vision of the former guy is a kind of desire of love.Your Mr right is not him but he just stand before you on your way for searching real love.The feel is like chicken's regarding his mother as the animal he first sees.you need is a Mr right who really want to touch you ,care you .feel your inner heart. Do you think how your Mr right should do? Find the guy ,fall love with him .you will be survived.
2009-3-13 08:50 AM
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Reply #40 zhuyun418's post
yes?
I will surely adopt this one, too
hehe
thank you
2009-3-13 08:51 AM
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Reply #52 carrotzxm's post
We two heroines share the bitter experiences
comrades
let's fight shoulder by shoulder
2009-3-13 08:54 AM
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Reply #51 jiefang's post
that's true
not a poem
thank you for your suggestion
2009-3-13 08:55 AM
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Reply #48 zzj_sunshine's post
I think we two will never become friends
I can try to regard him as my elder brother
I hope we in the same city will never meet with each other again
far from eye and far from heart
2009-3-13 08:58 AM
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Reply #47 cherryang's post
yes sorrow is just temporary
I still fight for my parents
shake hands with you
2009-3-13 09:00 AM
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