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amethystaces
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Reply #20 Sallygoo's post

thank you sister
you give me confidence
thank you indeed

2009-3-12 02:29 PM

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suggestion: climbing the mountain around your city

maybe you have a litter introverted personality. less communication. i can feel your feeling.

it's term that we must experince after breaking up with someone. we feel we never can love with somebody, and even have a little regret, and think many times maybe it's mistake to part with him.

i can surely tell you, you will be better and better after ending this term, you will find a new life and enjoy it.

you can climb mountain by yourself to find your confidence like me. i climbed Xiang shang when i broken up with my exbf. Only myself, feel the wind, the sun, the cloudy, and my heartbeat.

do something or find someplace that your exbf havent done or strolled with you. make many new memories only by yourself. then you will be well quickly.

2009-3-12 02:51 PM

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ding 20#

2009-3-12 02:53 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by cuijian at 2009-3-12 14:53
ding 20#

2009-3-12 02:58 PM

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the past has died already.
buddha says, when you feel suffering very much, there must be something which you desire, but actually it does not belong to you.
either put it down or die with it.
There is no solution except these two.

2009-3-12 03:05 PM

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Reply #25 chasingWind's post

you are right
there is no solution except the two
thank you
you give me more hope

2009-3-12 03:14 PM

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floor 2 is too classical!!!

2009-3-12 03:17 PM

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maybe let you forget him in the short time ,it's not possible.so the time is the best medcine,you can do the things you are interested to let you not think about him. And maybe your broking up with him is a good choice ,because if he really loves you,he cannot let you are so painful .so you real Mr White is waiting for you .Be happy ,be optimistic.
I really wish you will be right.

2009-3-12 03:27 PM

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what?!!! 13 years old?
i knew nothing about love at thirteen...........
early in means early out now seems plausible.

anyway,sorry to hear that you suffered so much pain

2009-3-12 03:28 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by loves521 at 2009-3-12 15:27
maybe let you forget him in the short time ,it's not possible.so the time is the best medcine,you can do the things you are interested to let you not think about him. And maybe your broking up w ...

2009-3-12 03:31 PM

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forget it ,your future will be better,good luck

2009-3-12 04:06 PM

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Be brave, everything will be better.

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Originally posted by amethystaces at 2009-3-12 13:19
is it a poem?
if it is, that is so miserable
sometimes I'd like to vanish from the worldliess, just like shu qi, diving into the sea
I don't know if she feels regrets for doing that,
or she fe ...

Hi, amethystaces,
Be brave. everything will be better.
One of my freinds once thought she couldn't live without her past boy freind. Anyway, after a while, she recognized another boy. The boy was nice and considerate to her. Finally she finds she likes him.

If you read threads online, you will find there are many people who have gone through the situation as you. But finally they all find there are too much fish in the lake. Don't sigh at the front tree, move forward and spend your time with your family or freinds, after a while, you will feel better. And some day when you find your love, you will realize there is no difficult or misery that we can't deal with.

Be brave. Move forward. We are all here supporting you to search and find your happiness again.

2009-3-12 04:09 PM

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Time can cure all the pains！Yes, i believe!

2009-3-12 04:34 PM

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Time can cure all the pains,yes,i believe!
in the movie,shuqi mound her ture love again,i hope you too.

2009-3-12 04:39 PM

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When I broke up with my girlfriend,I felt really sad.I found it difficult to remove her from my mind.But my girlfriend said ,sadness was temporary.That's true.Keep going,you'll find your lifelong love.

2009-3-12 04:52 PM

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uhm,what i could say is...
man proposes,god disposes.

2009-3-12 05:06 PM

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In this world, things happen when they happen

QUOTE:

Originally posted by melon1008 at 2009-3-12 16:09

Hi, amethystaces,
Be brave. everything will be better.
One of my freinds once thought she couldn't live without her past boy freind. Anyway, after a while, she recognized another boy. The boy w ...

i entirely agree with you.
sorry to hear your sad story ,amethystaces i can feel you are really hurt .but In this world, things happen when they happen. you can't change it, but time and experience can change you. Keep going!

2009-3-12 06:07 PM

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maybe what you real need is a sudden time on which you will feel person's care. A care from deep inner another heart can feel your feel.It is not the skin-deep words like time can cure everying but the real action to touch your heart. A heart you can spout to , eyes you can glare at.it is the MR right.He is not handsome than your former,he has not got along with you for a long time,you two do not have so many recallable beyonds.but you know he is the person servive you from past.In chinese saying 盈盈一水间,脉脉不得语.

2009-3-12 07:24 PM

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where is my reply?

2009-3-12 07:27 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by yulinyan56 at 2009-3-12 10:34
forgive...forget...forward!

That is a very good suggestion for her! If I were her ,I will adopt this one.

2009-3-12 07:49 PM

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