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happyhappyning
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Sing like there are no listeners;

Maybe your husband doesn't romantic and he thinks that wedding is just a formality and the essence of your life is to live together forever. So don't think too much and don't sad.

2009-10-31 04:43 PM

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may be you can buy yourself a ring. and you just tell your husband you why you did it.

2009-11-1 05:41 PM

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good luck

i will buy a wedding ring for my girlfirend.i think if your husband love you, he will buy it for you
good luck, my firend.

2009-11-2 02:29 PM

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wedding ring

if you love him, please pay no attention on the wedding ring.
love him, marry him, do not say something bad just have a beautiful dream, let the past time gone with the wind!

2009-11-2 05:27 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by sherry52033 at 2008-12-30 16:00

Maybe it is because of my self-respect. i kept silent, and never complain. But it bothered me a lot. Sometimes,i think i incline towards melancholia. I need to talk to others about this thing, ...

I sugest you to ask your husband why he didn't buy a ring for you. I think he is in love with you ,because he gave you a wedding and you have a baby ,the baby is the crastal of your affection ! May he is the man who is very slowness ,though he knows that most people exchange the rings in wedding as you thuoght . You said you never told him the real idea of yours , maybe he really don't know you mind it !
Don't be afraid of this, just tell him your true thuoght . Best wishes to you !

2009-11-3 01:52 PM

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ask him to expailn the reason.Maybe he has the secret sorrow.

2009-11-4 11:27 AM

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I won't marry the guy if he dose not buy me a ring!
I think the ring is a symbol of love!
No matter what hard situation you are in, the ring is necessary !

2009-11-5 07:30 PM

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oh no!
it is horrible
not have a ring for a wedding!
unbelievable

2009-11-7 05:22 PM

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Hehe,

Not every lady has a ring when she got married, for example, my mother yet...

2009-11-9 05:07 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by melon1008 at 2008-12-29 16:29

Sherry, I think you should tell your husband: The marriage ring is meaningful to you. You don't care about the price it costs, but you do care about its value---it is a symbol of marriage.
Tell ...

But it's already two years ago, I think if Sherry's husband is really a nice person, no need to care about it. Maybe he ran out of money for decorating the house, ect. One wedding need to spend a lot of money, of course he need to spend it on the things that he thought necessarily.

2009-11-10 02:43 PM

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NO,you are wrong.whatever you have the ring or not.
Communicate with your husband about it. Don't talk marriage there.

2009-11-11 09:10 AM

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Are you kidding? I am prepare my wedding.And i am consulting with my girlfriend what kind of ring to buy.And if you thought it is a problem,you should tell your husband.

2009-11-11 09:24 PM

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hi Sherry,
I can understand that. My colleague got marry over 5-6 years ago. Even today after the apartments, the car, the good life style and the baby she still didnt get her ring. For her is also very important. I think it is for all girls so I can understand your frustration.

You should talk to your love one and tell him your feeling. I dont want you to wait like my friend for all those year and still nothing. Good luck.

2009-11-11 11:47 PM

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i am sorry to hear that

dear sherry ! so sorry to hear that you haven't got a ring from you husband. i think he is mean enough , a gold ring just take several hundred! i am going to marry , i told my bf before i like diamond and he said he is going to buy a diamond ring for me, but i know we have little money , i suggest him to buy a gold ring is ok and save more money to my dear mother as bride wealth. haha!
i also suggest you , just tell out to your husband don't just keep in mind. To be a out-going person is happier. Everything you can talk to your husband because he is the most close person in the world!

2009-11-12 03:49 PM

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Just make sure that he is loving you .that is enough!!

2009-11-14 04:04 PM

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Don't hesitate to talk with your husband

Cherry,

Everyone knows that the ring is necessary for a bride in a wedding. But why you didn't get it? the reason I think it is not the most important, beacause several years past already, the important thing is if you are happy with him these years after wedding? you can find out if he loves you all the time through life, what's your feeling? if happiness, maybe you should try to forget the ring, after all it's just a symbol, not the happiness, but you have got the happiness now. of course, if you insist that, maybe you should hint him by a story or other things.

I am a man, also 80's, but i barely believe the action of your husband to this matter, after all, he is not a bone head, I really can't understand what he are thinking? but you are bound to know, he is your husband, you should try to know what kind of man he is ? it's useful for your determination.
Besides, I am aware of that you are afaid of to talk to him, don't worry, Love cares by you and him, not only you, take it easy.
Wish you can get a perfect result.

Sincerely
KevinBai from CQ

2009-11-15 04:38 PM

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Should do what this UK girl did !!

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Originally posted by sherry52033 at 2008-12-29 13:29
Each girl dreams to be the most beautiful bride that day. Dreams the moment groom wears the ring for her personally. But nothing happened in my wedding. My husband d ...

A bride has been accused of stealing almost £500,000, part of which allegedly helped pay for her wedding.

By Richard Savill
Published: 5:25PM GMT 15 Nov 2009

Surrounded by family and friends, Joanne Kent posed happily for a series of wedding photographs in her long, flowing, white dress.

But it has been disclosed that the financing of the event has been the subject of a police investigation.

Mrs Kent, 26, has been accused of stealing £477,000, including £50,000, which she allegedly spent on the wedding.

The mother-of-two has been charged with committing theft and fraud against her former employers, Wilsons UK, a subsidiary of the American company which supplies the oil industry.

She had worked in the accounts department of the firm in Walsall, West Midlands, which has an annual turnover in Britain of £10 million.

Mrs Kent was reported to have joined the company at the age of 21 and worked her way up to team leader, earning about £25,000 a year.

Her duties included handling a high number of daily financial transactions and making payments to suppliers.

Pictures of her 2007 wedding to her fiancé, David, are posted on her Facebook webpage. It has been reported that she also allegedly spent money on property and expensive cars.

Mrs Kent was arrested earlier this year after the firm called in West Midlands Police.

She was later charged with theft and fraud and has since attended four hearings related to the case at Walsall Magistrates’ Court.

Mrs Kent, who lives in Cornwall, was due to attend a hearing at Wolverhampton Crown Court on Tuesday but it was postponed after she gave birth to her second child. She already has a daughter, aged three.

Company House records show that last year she became a director of a newly-formed company in Truro called Eco Warehouse Ltd.

She was also appointed company secretary of Environmental Skills Network Ltd, which is also based in Truro.

It is understood she no longer works for either organisation.

The West Midlands Crown Prosecution Service confirmed that a 26-year-old woman had been charged with one count of theft and one count of fraud.

He said the planned hearing had been rescheduled for Nov 24 at Wolverhampton Crown Court.

Mrs Kent declined to comment.

2009-11-16 04:08 AM

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A ring is not so important if you husbant love you.....

2009-11-19 10:14 AM

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it is the ring in the finger that is just the symbol of your love longlived, but what's i'm thinking or as a man is, the couples mentioned sherry, thire love story is filled with meaningful even the ring can't deserve that, so the groomsman did not buy the ring to her wife.
personally speaking, i will buy the ring i can afford, when i am there .

2009-11-19 01:43 PM

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No ring on my wedding

I think you must be happy with your family even if without wedding ring! Best wishes!

2009-11-19 01:49 PM

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