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Originally posted by fszkeyer at 2008-11-24 01:23
I denouce all human conducts against nature.Homosexuality should be forbidden legally.We need pure morals to accord with nature

Why do you think this is against nature?

2008-11-24 02:44 AM

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Originally posted by snappysammy at 2008-11-23 04:45
ChineseQueen= Jeff so are you married.....

Huh? What does that mean? I am confused....

2008-11-24 02:26 PM

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I am asking do you have a life partner....If your name is Jeff and you are ChineseQueen, then I assume you are Gay...

2008-11-24 11:08 PM

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Originally posted by snappysammy at 2008-11-24 23:08
I am asking do you have a life partner....If your name is Jeff and you are ChineseQueen, then I assume you are Gay...

What makes you think that Jeff is possibly my name????????

2008-11-25 03:11 AM

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Originally posted by chinesequeen at 2008-11-22 17:10

I am curious about the parenting and adoption rights for same sex couples. Just exactly how many ways for same sex coulples to be parents? And for the children raised by thesame s ...

Oops... I made a mistake.. I thought you were saying thanks and YOUR name was Jeff....

Are You a male or female?

2008-11-25 03:16 AM

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Originally posted by snappysammy at 2008-11-25 03:16

Oops... I made a mistake.. I thought you were saying thanks and YOUR name was Jeff....

Are You a male or female?

I am female Chinese......

2008-11-25 04:12 AM

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are you married?

2008-11-25 09:57 PM

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same-sex marriage is not reasonable ,I think .
how do they bring up their chirld ?
if their chirld ask them who is his/her dad/mother ,how can they answer their kid .

2008-12-26 03:50 PM

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I think that is normal for personal sex , they should really know what themslfe do.

2008-12-26 04:29 PM

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I dont think anybody has any right to inflict their own personal beliefs onto other people.

Just because you are not gay doesnt mean the rest of the world shouldn't be either. I am not gay, but just because I'm not, its not like the rest of the world shouldn't be either. To each his own and if thats what floats their boat then good for them! It's not your life so why do you feel the need to indulge into their business????

I think its a horrible mentality and people need to grow up and grow out of it.

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2008-12-29 12:18 PM

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I cannot see why not. It will be hard though considering how traditional the society is. But I dont see any wrong with it. I am true believer some people were born to be homosexual. And same sex marriage shall be allowed just like opposite sex marriage.

2009-1-2 01:12 PM

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Originally posted by sinfulangel at 2009-1-2 13:12
I cannot see why not. It will be hard though considering how traditional the society is. But I dont see any wrong with it. I am true believer some people were born to be homosexual. And same sex ma ...

so typical of DOGGIE from SH

2009-1-2 01:19 PM

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Originally posted by caringhk at 2009-1-2 15:19

so typical of DOGGIE from SH

Oh, some people just dont change at all!

Leave me alone, as I will do so.

Bye

2009-1-2 01:21 PM

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Homosexuality should be forbidden legally

That's like saying that people should be forbidden to have five fingers on each hand.

You cannot "forbid" something that nature has produced. People don't "choose" to be gay.

Think about children in middle school being bullied for being gay. Do you think those children "choose" to be gay? Do you think they enjoy being bullied and ostracized?

Anti-gay protests in the US come from religious groups following mindless and outdated religious books of hate. They are not based on any logical reasoning. The Chinese do not have to follow the same mindless approach. What makes the US the world's role model? Being conservative need not mean being mindless.

For example, what if I followed a religion that said that my God wanted me to take your wife, your daughters and your property? Would you say to me, "Of course, please help yourself. I respect your religion. Here is my wife. Here are my daughters. Here are the keys to my house. Please enjoy. I am leaving now. Goodbye."?

Would you say and do that? I highly doubt it.

Similarly, why should gay people be subject to someone else's nonsensical religious beliefs? Human laws should be based on the principles of fairness, equality and justice, and not on mindless religious sayings.

Legal unions are important for gay people too. They just want the same legal rights like tax and medical benefits and inheritance as straight couples do; nothing more, nothing less. For example, without legal inheritance rights, if a gay person dies, his property may not reach his partner even if he leaves a will. His gay-hating relatives could grab all his property and leave his partner with nothing.

Don't you think it is unfair that someone who hates you can take all your property if you die?

Gay couples may bring up children better than many straight couples do. Read about the amount of cruelty, abuse and neglect children can be subjected to by single parents and by heterosexual couples in the US. For many straight couples and individuals, children are just bargaining chips, to get more child support money, to pay less child support money, to punish the former spouse, etc. On the other hand, adoption for gay couples is a very big decision, and gay couples would adopt children only because they genuinely love them. Such children could expect a loving family environment that many straight people will not offer.

Gay people also know very well that being gay is not a "choice". Therefore they will not try to force such children to "choose" to become gay. What they would do of course is provide the insights to allow the child to be accepting and tolerant of the gay community without turning into mindless gay-haters. The children will learn that gay people are human too, and not "the devil's spawn".

China has shown a lot of progress in this matter so far. Let us hope it will continue with its sensible approach.

2009-1-6 02:20 PM

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QUOTE:

Originally posted by sinfulangel at 2009-1-2 12:12 AM
I cannot see why not. It will be hard though considering how traditional the society is. But I dont see any wrong with it. I am true believer some people were born to be homosexual. And same sex ma ...

SInful dont listen to him....I agree with your statement 100%.....it will be difficult, especially wit oppression from religion and traditions but I also feel just like that they are meant to be homosexuals.

I believe a simliar theory....if everybody in the world only ate vegetables, we wouldnt not have enough to feed everyone...if everybody only ate meat...we would not have enough....that is why some people are born to eat only meat, some only eat vegetables...some eat both....its the universes way of balancing things out....i think same applies with homosexuals and human-kind.

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2009-1-6 03:10 PM

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this is just a big joke and no proper person will agree it

2009-1-6 03:13 PM

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Originally posted by demonociety at 2009-1-6 02:13 AM
this is just a big joke and no proper person will agree it

no proper person?? since when did i not become a proper person??

I think people like you simply need to get your heads out your asses and grow up. Anything that goes against your "norm" is wrong...get use to it, its the 21st century and your in for a hell of a lot more then this!

-D

2009-1-6 03:15 PM

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THEY WILL ALL BURN IN HELL la

2009-1-6 03:25 PM

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haha! perfect example of contrl by religion or tradition

isn't it amazing that the first religions such as paganism which most religions come from hold no prejudice? because were truly created equal? then you throw in other religions like Christianity that play more towards the controlling of people and there actions and homosexuality becomes a sin, and on top of it if you dont do as they say you burn...amazing to follow the traditions of a religion that uses such fear factors to keep the people in line.....just shows you how it may be more natural than many wish to believe

2009-1-6 03:33 PM

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Many so called primitive societies were structured to accept individuals who were born gay. It is part of nature so all the laws in the world will not change that. However there are extreme elements that should not be encouraged and you see more of this in the US and Europe. One thing that is obvious is there will always be disapproval since gays are a minority. I think they should be accepted but do have trouble with children being raised by gays acting as a couple.Because society generally disapproves the children will be effected by this when they play with friends, go to school and of course could grow up very confused.

In our company our best salesperson is black and gay. All the less talented salespeople are very jealous and they are critical behind his back.

He is the best son to his mother, generous with others and I respect him and always defend him.

2009-1-7 01:52 PM

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