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Which one comes first for you, physical attraction or personality attraction?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2012-12-4 17:21:01 |Display all floors
This post was edited by rainyweather at 2012-12-4 17:27

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Situation 1: you're mentally attracted to someone, you adore his/her personality and enjoy having conversations with him/her, he/she stimulates your mind but you're not physically attracted to him/her one bit.

Situation 2: You're attracted to someone physically, you feel intense chemistry when you're around him/her. Just having him/her next to you make your heart beats, but on a mental level, you and he/she haven’t had meaningful conversations and he/she can't get your mind stimulated. Or you even think he/she is superficial.

In the 1st situation, your mind is in ecstasy

In the 2nd situation, sex is amazing

Which one comes first for you, physical attraction or personality attraction?


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Post time 2012-12-4 17:25:37 |Display all floors
This post was edited by rainyweather at 2012-12-4 17:28

Physical Attraction VS Personality Attraction?

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Post time 2012-12-4 19:03:25 |Display all floors
I guess it depends how you first meet. Meeting face to face as strangers then I would say looks attract first......because there is nothing else yet.

If you know someone through phone calls or emails perhaps through work before you meet, then perhaps looks take a second place. You may already be attracted to the person's personality, humour etc.

However, whichever way you meet I would say there were more risks involved in a relationship with a beautiful/handsome person. Looks are superficial but will not last.

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Post time 2012-12-4 19:29:58 |Display all floors
I think thinking of person is matter here not personality or all these things.

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Post time 2012-12-5 00:34:37 |Display all floors
personality attraction makes people look handsome
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Post time 2012-12-5 09:45:33 |Display all floors
xilaren Post time: 2012-12-5 00:34
personality attraction makes people look handsome

Why plumply body comes first to guy normally rather than personality charm?

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Post time 2012-12-6 13:36:25 |Display all floors
Laowai2? Post time: 2012-12-4 19:03
I guess it depends how you first meet. Meeting face to face as strangers then I would say looks attr ...

can't agree more. people can be easily attracted by those strange people with good-looking appearance. Getting to know someone's personality requires time and patience. so that is why romance always blooms at the office. working environment gives you time and space to know your colleague's personality and interests, start to appreciate them and finally fall for them.

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