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Post time 2018-7-5 11:45:01 |Display all floors
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With men, talk about



-money (business, career etc.)
-women
-power or anything relevant to power grabbing, i.e. wars, football games, politics etc.


With women, talk about
-beauty (clothes, makeup, shopping, flowers)
-love (romantic love)
-pets (especially dogs, cats)


With parents, especially mothers, talk about their children


With the elder, talk about
- their past because there's no future. This is why the elder are nostalgic.
- their grandchildren because grandchildren are their life extension.


With the younger, talk about
-their future, ambition


One-size-fits-all of rule is to talk about the hobbies of individuals.







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Post time 2018-7-5 15:57:21 |Display all floors
futureone168 Post time: 2018-7-5 15:38
Hobbies as in engaging oneself during office hours at work?  Ohh no, sounds bit strange and sneaky,  ...

When you reach business, you should build rapport with the person in the first place.
A salesman Tom went to visit his prospect, and the  customer said he was busy and didn't have time for him. The salesman said, "Give me five minutes, and I wouldn't bother you."

The customer agreed. A salesman went into his office. He didn't talk about his business, but looking a photo on the wall. On the photo, the customer was playing football.

Tom asked him, "This is you? You like football too?"

The customer couldn't help talking about football to the saleman as football was always his passion. Soon, the salesman said, "Now five minutes are up. I got to go."

"No, no, please stay." said the customer.

They talked about the football all the afternoon. At the end of the day, the salesman also closed the deal with the customer.



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Post time 2018-7-5 21:26:58 |Display all floors
'Topic’ sounds like ‘talk-pick’ which shows ‘To pick up anything for talking!’
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futureone168 Post time: 2018-7-6 10:34
If you tell foreigners other than seneca your favourite hobby is to browse on internet all day at w ...

I mainly work as a teacher in school; At home I must take care of 90-year-old mother with wife and children far away from me. Interneting is my delicious enjoyment in late night! -----------Now I am in summer holidays but still busy on recruiting new student!
I wonder you intend to tell reader friends that needle-hole is big enough for Tom to pass through in your unfit words!
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