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Post time 2017-12-13 12:32:40 |Display all floors
Yin_99 Post time: 2017-12-12 15:06
The three most popular criteria for Chinese men in selecting girl friend or wife are:'Young, pretty/ ...

And once he has caught her, he goes looking for another young and pretty one!

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This post was edited by Yin_99 at 2017-12-13 16:07
sfphoto Post time: 2017-12-13 12:30
Not true. There's a Chinese saying: "Marry an ugly woman if you want a good wife; marry a pretty gi ...

Will you accept a Chinese woman with her own kid from previous relationship as your wife?  Don't pretend to be unselfish and noble.  Majorities of Chinese men are very sophisticated and calculated in measuring actual profit and loss in any relationship.  Their mathematics skills really count in things like that.

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Yin_99 Post time: 2017-12-13 16:06
Will you accept a Chinese woman with her own kid from previous relationship as your wife?  Don't pr ...

Chinese men marry women in order to start a family by having children of their own. A woman who is divorced with kids from a previous marriage most likely would not want to have more kids. That's the main reason why Chinese men don't want to marry divorced women with kids. Note here that I am talking about young single never married men in their 20s and 30s. They might have fooled around with other women but marriage is when they start thinking of children and family.

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Post time 2017-12-13 16:51:41 |Display all floors
This post was edited by Yin_99 at 2017-12-13 17:19

How could you explain average divorced Chinese men refuse to marry another divorced Chinese woman or a widow with her own kid, even if the divorced man has got his kid from previous marriage?  Let's say in many Chinese men's mind, there is no such word as 'Sharing' or 'shared'.  Instead, their mind is focsed mainly on their 'own benefit'.

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Yin_99 Post time: 2017-12-13 16:51
How could you explain average divorced Chinese men refuse to marry another divorced Chinese woman or ...

From what I know, the Chinese "one-child" law prohibits a woman with a child from having another child. That's true whether the woman is married or divorced. So the single, never married Chinese man has a good reason not to marry a divorced woman with a child.

There are lots of single, never married Chinese women in their 30s and 40s because they can't find single, never married Chinese men willing to marry them. So how come they don't marry divorced Chinese men?

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Post time 2017-12-13 17:46:41 |Display all floors
This post was edited by Yin_99 at 2017-12-13 17:51

As far as I know, few single Chinese women in their 30's or 40's refuse to marry any divorced Chinese men, unless the men are dishonest or irresponsible to be a good partner.

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Yin_99 Post time: 2017-12-13 17:46
As far as I know, few single Chinese women in their 30's or 40's refuse to marry any divorced Chines ...

Do you know that there are more single, never married Chinese women in their 30s or 40s than there at divorced Chinese men? Single never married Chinese men tend to marry by their 20s or 30s. Single, never married Chinese women who don't get married to single never married Chinese men don't want to marry divorced men. That's why they're still single.

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