High expectation also comes with high price tags.
Deep-pocketed bachelors first pay a 96,000 yuan (£11,000) annual membership fee - or 300,000 yuan (£34,600) as VIPs - before spending an extra 69,000 yuan (£8,000) on each dating event held at a luxurious golf club in Kharkiv.
Mr Mei, the father of a three-year-old girl, confessed that though many male members are wealthy, they don't have much taste and don't know how to woo women.
Mr Mei said once he had to stop a man from wearing a gaudy gold belt to one event. He said the man had hoped to use the bling accessory to impress women, but he made him buy a new 'more appropriate' outfit.
One of the female members told a reporter from Arrow Factory that she wants to find a partner through the club with whom she could travel the world and have a lot of children