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Who Should Be Responsible For Leftover Women   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2017-1-24 13:46:54 |Display all floors
there is nothing shameful about being a single educated woman.
But the term ' left over woman' was created in order to shame single women into marrying, even if they didn't want to because the reality in China is very different.

there are between 30-40 million men who will never have a wife, due to the 'one child policy' and the 'traditional' preference for boys in families.
These are men who are mostly uneducated and have poor social skills.
But many are now also university graduates (also with poor social skills) due to their preference to spend time with computers or phones than with real people.
These are 'left over men'.

it is not the woman's fault or problem that she is single.
it could be that there are very few attractive men who treat them with respect (and don't call them 'left-over).

Very often it is the most unattractive 'loser' men who are the loudest in demeaning a woman and her life choices.

the language a man uses when talking or writing about women reveals his attitude to women, especially when he thinks no-one (ie women) is listening except other men.
His lack of respect can be detected in the words he chooses.

this is the 21st century.
no-woman should have to conform to an outdated attitude to what anyone thinks she should and not do with her life.

Being emotionally blackmailed into marriage by family, friends, society just to make babies does not lead to a stable social structure.

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Post time 2017-1-24 14:57:03 |Display all floors
Whoever is a women doesn't want to be loved ,and whoever is a man want to be royal to his lover
The darkest hour is that before the dawn.

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Post time 2017-1-24 16:21:08 |Display all floors
Does every single married woman feel happy necessarily?  Many are tolerable to co-existence mistress outside their families, some have their own secret lovers same as their husbands.

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Post time 2017-1-24 19:26:51 |Display all floors
May all lovers unite in marriage !
The darkest hour is that before the dawn.

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Post time 2017-1-24 19:30:55 |Display all floors
I think if they do not want to marry, they can ba responsible for themselves.

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Post time 2017-1-25 20:44:51 |Display all floors
To bad I need find husband before I am 30

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Post time 2017-1-25 21:17:23 |Display all floors
Good luck@ @

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