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Post time 2017-1-24 09:16:27 |Display all floors
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This post was edited by Ratfink at 2017-1-24 12:17

According to Mrs Ratfink the actual age for "left over women" varies with the tier and importance of the city.  A low ranking city is 25-27 years old while a major 1st Tier city such as Shanghai is closer to 35 years old.

Regardless of age it's a woman's right to not marry until she wishes to, so for those who think that leftover women are bad or awful, think again.  They tend to be highly educated and career oriented women with goals in life.  It's up to the guys to lift their game and stop thinking they are "Gawds gift to women" and that all women will swoon at their feet because they are looking for a bride.  Grow up kiddies, the rules have changed.

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Ratfink Post time: 2017-1-24 12:16
According to Mrs Ratfink the actual age for "left over women" varies with the tier and importance of ...

maybe the man fitted with them is rare .
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Post time 2017-1-24 12:27:07 |Display all floors
Maxwell996 Post time: 2017-1-24 12:20
maybe the man fitted with them is rare .

Not rare, but a woman with a PhD or Masters and a successful career or her own business is hardly going to be interested in a Coolie or a guy who fixes cars for example.
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Post time 2017-1-24 13:46:54 |Display all floors
there is nothing shameful about being a single educated woman.
But the term ' left over woman' was created in order to shame single women into marrying, even if they didn't want to because the reality in China is very different.

there are between 30-40 million men who will never have a wife, due to the 'one child policy' and the 'traditional' preference for boys in families.
These are men who are mostly uneducated and have poor social skills.
But many are now also university graduates (also with poor social skills) due to their preference to spend time with computers or phones than with real people.
These are 'left over men'.

it is not the woman's fault or problem that she is single.
it could be that there are very few attractive men who treat them with respect (and don't call them 'left-over).

Very often it is the most unattractive 'loser' men who are the loudest in demeaning a woman and her life choices.

the language a man uses when talking or writing about women reveals his attitude to women, especially when he thinks no-one (ie women) is listening except other men.
His lack of respect can be detected in the words he chooses.

this is the 21st century.
no-woman should have to conform to an outdated attitude to what anyone thinks she should and not do with her life.

Being emotionally blackmailed into marriage by family, friends, society just to make babies does not lead to a stable social structure.

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Post time 2017-1-24 14:57:03 |Display all floors
Whoever is a women doesn't want to be loved ,and whoever is a man want to be royal to his lover
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Post time 2017-1-24 19:26:51 |Display all floors
May all lovers unite in marriage !
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