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How to choose? The one who loves you or the one you love? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2017-2-4 23:48:26 |Display all floors
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Post time 2017-2-5 19:28:40 |Display all floors
In matters of love relationships, we should care for the other person first before caring for ourselves.

If you love him but he doesn't love you, it may be prolonging a lifelong agony for him if both are together permanently.  Likewise, if you don't love him but he loves you, it may be prolonging a lifelong agony for you if both are together permanently (i am killing time waiting for dinner..which seems a long time coming..)

There is a chance in either case, both will end up loving each other; does he know himself well enough and do you know yourself well enough to make a lifelong commitment on the basis of that possibility?  If your instincts say no, then take a sabbatical and see what happens.  Say one year no-contact separation. During this period, either can strike up other friendships. Neither should be jealous or unhappy about what may happen. After all, the motivation to be together is because both should care for each other first and more than for oneself.

If you're still not sure, you're not ready. Take your time.

I would like to add something more mischievous but you know, the mods will kill me. Again.

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