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Post time 2015-8-14 21:31:18 |Display all floors
parcher Post time: 2015-8-14 20:24
The biggest reason of course being the one sided divorce packages....
a lot of men do not think it ...

A divorce can cost a lot of money in western countries.

Many modern couples avoid marriage for this reason.

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Post time 2015-8-14 21:46:10 |Display all floors
parcher Post time: 2015-8-14 11:27
Right person for that particular time does not mean he/she is the right person....
people get marrie ...

"the right person rarely exists these days"



Is there such a thing as:

*a perfect match* ?



Is it possible that such couples really do exist?




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Post time 2015-8-14 21:49:17 |Display all floors
dragon8 Post time: 2015-8-14 21:46
"the right person rarely exists these days"

Yes back in the old days most couples were made for each other, but that was before the greed set in...
there are many stories about couples falling in love at school, then staying with each other well in to their 80's or 90's...
nowadays its all about lining your pockets...
if you want something in life get off your backside, and do it yourself!! don't rely on others to do it for you

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Post time 2015-8-14 22:14:50 |Display all floors
dragon8 Post time: 2015-8-14 20:02
Do parents choose a better partner for their kids?

Does this type of marriage last longer?

Parents have more experience of life.

Their choice of partner for their kids, should be very good.

But it may not be the most romantic choice.

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Post time 2015-8-14 22:53:06 |Display all floors
parcher Post time: 2015-8-14 21:49
Yes back in the old days most couples were made for each other, but that was before the greed set  ...

"couples falling in love at school, then staying with each other well in to their 80's or 90's"



In the modern world, this does happen in places where all the boys and girls attend the same school.

They are giant schools with well over 1000 pupils.

These schools have all the boys and girls from a very large area.

Because of the large area, all the possible marriage partners attend the same school.

If the parents want to know who their child will marry in the future, they should look at the school group photograph.

The strange thing is, this type of marriage is usually a success.

It's difficult to explain why.




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Post time 2015-8-15 00:48:40 |Display all floors
dragon8 Post time: 2015-8-14 20:02
Do parents choose a better partner for their kids?

Does this type of marriage last longer?


In their imagination they think they are doing right but they are the ones to blame for their kid's failures.

Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2015-8-15 00:51:58 |Display all floors
dragon8 Post time: 2015-8-14 20:16
"Chinese parents ...... pushing their kids to get married in their early 20s"

Chinese parents wan ...
Chinese parents want grand-children.


I want you to leave this forum for your nonsenses posts. Should i have to push you to leave?

Chinese parents just want to "save" face, no matter if their kids are happy or not with the spouse they choose for their kids.

Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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