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Post time 2014-11-23 17:59:41 |Display all floors
This post was edited by Thankopam at 2014-11-23 18:03
roberte Post time: 2014-11-23 16:57
You are a braggert too. I'm not gonna find an African girl to be my girlfriend.
We should keep it in Hong Kong and marry Hong Kong Girl

We look down at our Mainland Chinese but I don't blame some ugkly guys marry them, better than a colour one

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Post time 2014-11-24 02:38:59 |Display all floors
Thankopam Post time: 2014-11-23 17:59
We should keep it in Hong Kong and marry Hong Kong Girl

We look down at our Mainland Chinese but I  ...

  You are saying you don't want to date a tall, leggy ,  and winsome girl from mainland? I'd say there is no need to rule out such possibilities. What matters most  in a relationship is whether she's the one whom you truly love or the desirable girl who loves you.

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Guy has read Neil Strauss' 'The Game' once too often. A neg here and a neg there....

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Hallo people.

I don't really know why me and the other girls are so attracted to black men, or how it has become a trend at german women.
I only can speak for myself, and i know the opinions and experiances from my friends and pales, i hang up with.
Surely it's about their dark skin, and mostly i like a black mens apearance. Sometimes it's the dark voice. It also could be the way he moves, his behavior, or how he smells...
Most of them are confident and a women gets all the attention she needs, and within there is also the sexual aspect.

Before you ask: If i can proof the big myth, you'll know what i mean, it's always a bonus. For now, it's all i have to say about this point.

Another reason for some german women may be the history, and the persecution and the genocide by the nazis. But that's not me and i think it's not the mean reason.

In the last 70 years most German man and women have learned to be more tolerant and open minded. Remember the long period of
occupation in germany, GIs were based in germany. Much of them married a german women and have a family.
That's why the german women learned about the afro-american and African culture or even the sub-culture of both. So german girls have already some interrests in black men and his
culture, or the girls got a good base for a flirt.

What i mean is: In the end it's all about the feelings and which desires you have. Feelings that all humans have when we fall in love, or get attracted to a man or a women.
People have preferences and desires, and also in sexuality and relationships. So it makes no difference if people are more attracted to white, black or any other ethnicy.
It's always a thing about prejudices, wishes or the desires you have. Our hopes and our desires are depending on the prejudices. Only there are some prejudices who are not so good or helpful like the other ones. That's the border to racism or other evil thoughts.
The best way to any prejudices or a myth, is to know if it's real and to proof it. Me and other women have done this.

I've tried, to find some studies and informations
about how many women are attracted to
black guys. Also if women are married with
black men, or want to have sex with them.

The problem: Not all of them are serious. In germany unfortunately, there seems to be no studies or surveys, including german women who are married or want to have sex with a black men.
The studies and surveys i've found, also the serious ones, are different in their results.

A study says 87% (!?) of all American women fantasize about having sex with a black guy. Similar studies about this question shows 51% and 42% of all white American women.
Studies in Europe released 53% and 64% of all european women are attracted to black men.
European studies exposing, it's deciding in which country the women lives.

As i have said before: I got no studies or survays, how german girls think about marriage or dating/have sex with a black male. Pertaining to my own experiences and the perceptions of my friends and my people, i will estimate the number of german women with “dark fantasies“ surely about 60%.
Some of you might wonder about this percentage. Remember, no one of us share all of his thoughts, opinions or desires with each other. If we would be honest all the time, we couldn't be in relationships or have a friend. Sometimes we must hide our real
feelings to maintain our relationships.

Long days and pleasent nights...

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